OK now I am getting to the real reason I came here today. There has become this heaviness in the family. Silent blame...trusts that were so easily given, broken. Blame because signs were ignored. Phrases are being said silently that have no place. "With your background why did you not see." "Why did you trust without question?" "Why can't she just reveal to the police?" "Why are you so mean to her? Maybe if you would have just been a little more loving this would not have happened."
There is only one person responsible and as I have stated before God has a special place in hell for him.
“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.”
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